“๐™„ ๐™™๐’Š๐™™๐’’๐’• ๐’”๐™๐’๐™ฌ ๐™ช๐’‘, ๐™—๐’–๐™ฉ ๐™ฉ๐’‰๐™š๐’ ๐‘ฐ ๐’…๐™ž๐’….”

Tฬณhฬณaฬณnฬณkฬณ ฬณyฬณoฬณuฬณ ฬณfฬณoฬณrฬณ ฬณtฬณhฬณiฬณsฬณ!ฬณ!ฬณ!ฬณ

Yesterday I was working on today’s reflection. I watched Satchmo through the window; I saw him playing all alone. Tossing his toys, flipping and flopping like he does. He didn’t know I was watching. That reminded me of something. I was all set to write a reflection about “When No One Is Watching”. What we have all heard many times. Although it is appoicable and we should remind each other often. That idea changed this morning. This is my revised reflection.

๐’๐ฎ๐ง๐๐š๐ฒ ๐ง๐ข๐ ๐ก๐ญ, I was reminded that there was a promise unkept. I felt horrible. I knew I let this person down. I gave a commitment and I let being busy interfere. Now that I was called out for this, I began to move right then. I hesitated once. I will not this time. It was late. I started asking questions, listening, and then asking more questions. Decisions were made. A simple plan was put in place.
What didnโ€™t seem like a big deal to me at the time was big to someone else. Thatโ€™s the part that stuck. I speak often about ๐’ƒ๐’†๐’Š๐’๐’ˆ ๐’‘๐’“๐’†๐’”๐’†๐’๐’• ๐’‡๐’๐’“ ๐’๐’•๐’‰๐’†๐’“๐’” in need. And here I was, the one who had dropped the ball. But even though I didnโ€™t show up when I was called, I did show up when I was humbled. God was moving in this two-hour conversation that turned out to be more of a session.
How did God show up? I couldnโ€™t sleep, therefore I was available. I was humbled, therefore, I was willing to take action right then. My mind was free of the dayโ€™s activities, therefore I was not distracted.
Hereโ€™s the part that still has me in awe. At the conclusion of our conversation, I was asked for my Cash App ID. You know the rest now, and youโ€™re right. I was sent $125.00 to cover the cost for a man to take my Total Fitness class. You know how hard that hit me, donโ€™t you? You can imagine the emotions I felt in that moment. I didnโ€™t expect that to happen. I didnโ€™t even know how to put it into words at first. Hereโ€™s my best attempt right now: Simple words that rested on my mind as I lay in bed with a smile. I was given a seconds chance to help.

“๐™„ ๐™™๐’Š๐™™๐’’๐’• ๐’”๐™๐’๐™ฌ ๐™ช๐’‘, ๐™—๐’–๐™ฉ ๐™ฉ๐’‰๐™š๐’ ๐‘ฐ ๐’…๐™ž๐’….”

And now, another person will have the opportunity to learn something new.
๐™‚๐’๐™™ ๐™ž๐’” ๐’ˆ๐™ค๐’๐™™. Thatโ€™s how I started my morning.
Those three words:
๐™‚๐’๐™™ ๐™ž๐’” ๐’ˆ๐™ค๐’๐™™.

โ›“๏ธ Chain-Breaker Questions
Who did you say you’d be there for and then didnโ€™t show up?
What have you treated like โ€œno big dealโ€ that meant everything to someone else?
What hesitation do you need to stop entertaining so you can move now?

โœ๏ธ Altar Challenge
Right now, not tomorrow, not next week. Make it right. Own your missed moment. Show up. Follow through. Restore the trust. Then bless someone else in return.
Read ๐ฝ๐‘Ž๐‘š๐‘’๐‘  4:17 ๐‘Ž๐‘›๐‘‘ ๐ฟ๐‘ข๐‘˜๐‘’ 16:10.
Speak this out loud and mean it: โ€œI didnโ€™t show up, but then I did. I didnโ€™t get it right, but Iโ€™m not done. God is good. Heโ€™s not through with me.โ€

If you are reading, Tฬณhฬณaฬณnฬณkฬณ ฬณyฬณoฬณuฬณ ฬณfฬณoฬณrฬณ ฬณtฬณhฬณiฬณsฬณ!ฬณ!ฬณ!ฬณ

๐™‰๐’ ๐‘ด๐™ค๐’“๐™š ๐™‰๐’‚๐™ž๐’๐™จ. What held you does not hold you.

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