ALTARed Life Coaching

Becoming Before Belonging

Most men are focused on finding the right woman.
This session flips the script.

What if the real question is: Are you becoming the kind of man God would trust with His daughter?
That’s not about perfection. It’s about preparation.
It’s not about chasing someone. It’s about becoming someone.

This 2-day experience is short, direct, and unapologetically real.
We’re not talking about relationships.
We’re talking about you.

You’re Not Waiting for a Woman. You’re Training to Be the Man.

This is not a seminar.
This is a construction zone for men who are ready to confront their patterns, face their truth, and build something real.

Each session is 1 hour. Two days. One mission.
To help you stop waiting on a woman and start becoming the man God would trust with His daughter.

“He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord.”
Proverbs 18:22 (ESV)

1. Show Up On Time
You get out what you put in. Late means distracted. Distracted means weak leadership. Be early. Be locked in.

2. Camera On. Eyes Up.
This is not Netflix. This is battle prep. If you’re attending by video, your face needs to be visible and your attention engaged. No driving. No multitasking.

3. No Fixing. No Preaching. No Ego.
This isn’t a pulpit or a locker room. No one is here to fix another man or sound like a hero. This is about personal ownership and authentic growth.

4. What’s Said Here, Stays Here
This space runs on trust. If a man opens up, his words stay in the room. Period.

5. No Excuses, No Victim Talk
You may be wounded, but you’re not powerless. This isn’t about what happened to you. It’s about what you’ll do next.

6. Speak Once Before You Speak Twice
Give room. Let others share. This isn’t a monologue, it’s a brotherhood.

7. Be Brutally Honest With Yourself
If you’re not ready to look in the mirror, you’re not ready for this session. The only way forward is through the truth.

8. Take the Challenge Seriously
You’ll leave with steps to follow through. What you do after this is where the real transformation begins.

9. We Start and End With God
This is a faith-rooted experience. Whether you’re close to God or just starting out, we begin and end in prayer. Show reverence.

10. No More Nails
We’re not here to patch old wounds. We’re here to rebuild the man.